Words I hate: Relatable
There are some words I have an unhealthy aversion to. One of them is
relatable
. I cringe, every time I hear it. Justin Beaver is so
relatable.
One of the things that makes Donald Trump such a great
president is that he is relatable.
She’s so relatable.
Hilary
didn’t win because people didn’t find her relatable.
Its meaning, in common parlance, is unambiguous: They are
relatable
means They are someone to whom I can relate
[1]. I don’t
recall it being in common use until recently, although the Google n-gram
viewer
seems to suggest that it peaked in the late 1970’s.
I’m generally in favor of words that clarify and simplify. So why do
I hate relatable
, other than the contexts in which I usually hear it [2]?
Perhaps it’s that it’s a nominalization. I spent enough time working with
the Joe Williams approach to writing [3] that I like to hear actors and
actions. Who relates to the person so described? Is it the speaker?
Is it the speaker suggesting a broader sense of relatability? Relatable
obscures.
And is relate
really the appropriate word? I also don’t like hearing
I relate to [insert random pop star]
. I guess it’s appropriate; as
it means to be connected. But I feel connected to [insert random pop
star’
feels more powerful to me, as does I think many people would
feel a connection to [insert random pop star]
.
Those serve as a few core complaints: Relatable
is a nominalization and
therefore causes the speaker/writer to eschew a clear actor and action.
Relate
seems like a weaker word than connect
or other related words.
So yes, I do have reasons to dislike the word.
Or maybe it’s just that I’m not relatable.
My spell checker also doesn’t think relatable
is a word, but it has a
fairly limited vocabulary. It also doesn’t like nominalization
, perhaps
because it doesn’t like seeing me nominalize that word..
[1] Maybe it doesn’t. Maybe it means They are someone to whom others
can relate.
[2] I would venture to guess that I hear it most frequently used in relation to pop stars, but perhaps I’m mistaken. I have heard the Hilary quote, which is perhaps another reason.
[3] Exemplified by Chicago’s Little Red Schoolhouse
and a variety of
books whose title normally begins Style.
Version 1.0 of 2017-09-25.